Virtual Couples Counselling
Work privately online with me in weekly relationship counselling therapy sessions to help you and your partner learn and practice the key essentials to effectively navigate the twists and turns of your relationship. Navigating the complexities of relationships can be challenging. Whether you're facing communication breakdowns, dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, or simply seeking to strengthen your bond, finding the right support is essential—and experience makes all the difference. Tackling complex issues in intimate relationships requires specific expertise. I have devoted my practice, passion and interest to working with intimate couples. In my 30+ years of private practice, I offer a safe and supportive space for couples to explore their challenges and learn the practical skills and tools to build a more fulfilling connection.
The Benefits of Virtual Counselling
Virtual couples therapy can offer the same depth, connection, and effectiveness as in-person therapy—often with added benefits. Meeting from the comfort of your own space can create a sense of ease and emotional safety, especially when discussing vulnerable or sensitive topics. It eliminates travel time and logistical stress, making it easier to prioritize your relationship even with busy schedules or children at home. Many couples find that being in their familiar environment actually helps them open up more freely. And while some may feel unsure about the lack of physical presence, the truth is that meaningful connection, insight, and transformation can happen just as powerfully through the screen. What matters most is the quality of the therapeutic relationship—and that transcends location.
Understanding the Need for Couples Counselling
Relationships, while a source of immense joy, can also be a source of significant stress. Many couples find themselves struggling with rigid patterns of conflict, difficulty expressing their needs, or a sense of disconnection. Many couples get stuck in what I call the “Negative Reciprocal Cycle”—a looping pattern where each partner fights to be right, but no one feels truly seen or heard. Arguments escalate, nothing gets resolved, and both walk away more alone than before. These challenges can create feelings of isolation and despair. If you're experiencing these issues, you're not alone.
My Approach to Couples Therapy
I understand that each couple is unique, and I tailor my approach to meet your specific needs. Utilizing evidence-based techniques, including elements of the Gottman Method, (EFT) Emotionally Focused Therapy, (SE) Somatic Experiencing, (CBT) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment Theory, and Family Systems. I help couples:
* Improve Communication: Learn effective communication skills to express your needs and listen empathetically.
* Resolve Conflict: Develop strategies for managing disagreements constructively and finding mutually agreeable solutions.
* Rebuild Trust: Address issues of infidelity or betrayal and work towards restoring trust and intimacy.
* Strengthen Emotional Connection: Foster a deeper emotional bond and create a sense of security and connection.
* Navigate Life Transitions: Support couples through significant life changes, such as marriage, parenthood, or career transitions.
* Improve Sexual Intimacy: Reignite passion, explore desires, navigate mismatched libidos, and deepen the connection in your sexual relationship.
Specialized Relationship Support
I provide online specialized support for couples facing a range of challenges, including:
* Infidelity Counselling: Healing from the pain of infidelity requires a sensitive and structured approach. I provide a safe space to explore the underlying issues and work towards rebuilding trust.
* Communication Problems Couples Therapy: Communication breakdowns are a common source of conflict. I help couples identify negative communication patterns and develop healthier ways of interacting.
* Pre-Marital Counselling: Prepare for a strong and lasting marriage with pre-marital counselling. I explore key areas such as communication, values, and expectations.
* Relationship Conflict Counselling: Learn effective strategies for managing conflict and navigating disagreements in a constructive manner.
* Couples Therapy for Trust Issues: Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship. I help couples address trust issues and rebuild a sense of security.
Why Choose My Practice?
* Experienced Counsellor: I have over three decades of direct couples counselling experience and have helped more than 1,000 couples.
* Compassionate Care: I provide a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your challenges with empathy and understanding.
* Personalized Approach: I tailor our therapy to meet your specific needs and goals.
Addressing Common Relationship Challenges
Many couples face similar challenges, including:
* Feeling Disconnected: A sense of emotional distance and lack of intimacy.
* Frequent Arguments: Recurring conflicts that escalate quickly.
* Lack of Trust: Issues related to infidelity, betrayal, or broken promises.
* Difficulty Expressing Needs: Struggling to communicate your needs effectively.
* Differing Expectations: Conflicting ideas about roles, responsibilities, or future plans.
Building a Stronger Relationship
Couples counselling can provide the tools and support you need to build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Through therapy, you can:
* Develop Healthier Communication Patterns: Learn to express your needs and listen empathetically.
* Strengthen Emotional Intimacy: Create a deeper sense of connection and closeness.
* Resolve Past Hurts: Address past hurts and build a foundation of trust.
* Navigate Life Transitions: Support each other through significant life changes.
* Create a Shared Vision: Develop a shared vision for your future together.
Investment
Private Virtual Couples Therapy with Trevor
1) Single Couple's Session - $280/75 minute session
2) Couple's Package 6 for 5 - $1,400/6-75 minute sessions - (Get 6 sessions for the price of 5 and save $280)
Take the First Step Towards a Healthier Relationship
If you're ready to invest in your relationship, I'm here to help. Virtual counselling sessions are scheduled during regular business hours at a time that's most convenient for you. Click "Book Online" to select a Counselling session. Or feel free to contact me today with any questions and begin your journey towards a stronger, more fulfilling connection. Serving Duncan, the Cowichan Valley, and Vancouver Island, I am committed to providing you with the expert support you are looking for.
More On Private In-Person Counselling Sessions
Relationship & Marriage Counselling has been my primary area of expertise since 1996. I have specialized in working with intimate couples for over two decades and have provided support to over a thousand couples in that time. As a seasoned marriage counsellor, I support couples to deal more effectively with issues ranging from conflict to feeling a lack of intimacy and connection to recovering from affairs. This type of therapy is for partners whose relationships may be struggling and who want the support of a relationship counsellor to reclaim the intimacy in their relationship as well as enhance their communication and problem-solving skills. Also for couples who have decided to part ways but wish to do so gracefully and work toward a healthy friendship or co-parenting partnership.
Work privately with Trevor in weekly relationship counselling therapy sessions to help you and your partner learn and practice the key essentials to effectively navigate the twists and turns of your relationship.
What Are Counselling Sessions?
A safe place for you and your partner to effectively explore the sticking points in your relationship and learn new tools for staying connected with the guidance of a seasoned therapist.
Who Are They For?
For couples who want to work privately with an experienced counsellor on specific issues. Trevor supports couples to deal more effectively with issues ranging from difficulties communicating, to conflict, to feeling a lack of intimacy and connection, to recovering from affairs.
Why Should I Consider Couples Counselling?
Sometimes couples reach a point in their relationship where they realize they are unable to resolve their issues on their own and require the expertise and experience of a seasoned relationship and marriage counsellor. Doing marriage counselling with couples is very specialized and challenging work and many therapists actively avoid working with couples due to the often challenging nature of supporting partners out of many of the rigid negative cycles they find themselves in. Tackling complex issues in intimate relationships requires specific expertise. I have devoted my practice, passion and interest in working with intimate couples.
When Can I Schedule A Session?
Counselling sessions are scheduled during regular business hours at a time that's most convenient for you. Click "Book Online" to select a Counselling session.
Investment
Private online couples therapy with Trevor
1) Individual Couple's Session $280/75 minute session
2) Couple's 6 for 5 Package - 1,400/6-75 minute sessions - Get 6 sessions for the price of 5 and save $280)
More On Private Counselling Sessions
Relationship & Marriage Counselling has been my primary area of expertise since 1996. I have specialized in working with intimate couples for over two decades and have provided support to over a thousand couples in that time. As a seasoned marriage counsellor, I support couples to deal more effectively with issues ranging from conflict to feeling a lack of intimacy and connection to recovering from affairs. This type of therapy is for partners whose relationships may be struggling and who want the support of a relationship counsellor to reclaim the intimacy in their relationship as well as enhance their communication and problem-solving skills. Also for couples who have decided to part ways but wish to do so gracefully and work toward a healthy friendship or co-parenting partnership.
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